QUIZ FOR PARTNER OF ADHDer
Read the statements below and check all that are true of you and your relationship.
____ My ADHDer has had an unusual number of job changes,
sometimes suddenly.
____ I find myself nagging my ADHDer for forgetting to do
things; I’m turning into someone I don’t want to be.
____ My ADHD partner is always coming up with unrealistic
money-making schemes and other elaborate projects.
____ My partner with ADHD frequently loses track of money; it
is either spent or lost—and we end up fighting about it.
____ We spend a lot of time every day looking for common
items like keys that my ADHDer has lost.
____My ADHD partner frequently blurts out private or
inappropriate things.
____ My ADHD partner doesn’t remember half of what I’ve said
or what s/he has done.
____My ADHD partner sometimes jumps to making major
decisions on his/her own and I feel left out of
decision-making.
____ Even small projects never seem to get finished in our
house.
____ We waste a lot of money replacing items we already have,
but can’t find.
____ Our house/apt. is cluttered because of unfinished cleaning
or other projects.
____ Our financial life is a mess because of spending and being
disorganized.
____ ADHD is causing arguments or tension in our relationship.
IF YOU CHECKED 4 OR MORE STATEMENTS ABOVE, ADHD MAY BE HURTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ADHD IS TREATABLE--AND COACHING CAN HELP YOU UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER BETTER AND IMPROVE COMMUNICATION.
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